"Durman Flash Card" education.
In order to “make the child win at the starting lineâ€, some parents’ practices are extreme.
Recently, a kind of "Durman Flash Card" education has become popular in the parental circle of children. The law claims that just take a stack of cards and flash in front of the baby, and sing along with the super fast speech rate "23+32= 55,15+18=33,45+26=71......", you can teach a few months old baby to learn mathematics, English words, Chinese vocabulary, chemical elements, disciples, car encyclopedia, and even world famous dogs.
This is really to create a "super baby"! Because people who have a little bit of parenting knowledge know that the visual acuity of a baby who has been a few months old is not yet developed, all of them are super "myopia", and even if the card can be seen clearly is a problem. Secondly, the newborn mainly knows the world by touch. The main task of this period is the development of perceptual consciousness, and then gradually add visual and auditory, but almost no abstract thinking. Until the age of four or five, young children can enter the symbol sensitive period and begin to understand the meaning of the symbol. In other words, before you teach again, the child can't understand the relationship between the vertical line and the concept of "1"...
Therefore, it is conceivable that the effect of the above-mentioned advance education can not only “stimulate the baby's brain-related neural pathways, but also enable children to rapidly improve various abilities including memory, etc.â€, but may affect the child's visual development and hinder the child from using himself. Good at learning. It is no wonder that experts evaluate this kind of "Flash Card Early Learning" training is a conditional reflex, the same as the principle of circus training animals, it may be more appropriate to call it "circus early education".
So why are parents willing to spend tens of thousands of dollars on such early classes? It’s nothing more than a child’s eagerness. I’m afraid that “when I’m not going, I’m behind others.†Some families have only one child for many years. In recent years, they have only had two births. The society has long formed an elite childcare and education culture. A child often embodies the hopes of the whole family, and is also devoted to the hard work of the whole family. In this case, parents' parenting anxiety can be imagined.
Selling anxiety is the best marketing tool, and naturally there are a lot of people who seize this "business opportunity." Under the banner of "good for children", all kinds of incredible business are going on. For example, the "grandmother" who caused a hot discussion in the previous two days claimed that the cerebral palsy could be cured by shaking the baby's head sharply. As we all know, cerebral palsy is almost incurable around the world, and shaking the baby's head violently can shake out the "baby shake syndrome", the consequences are very serious.
Therefore, the more anxious, the more calm, do not easily hand over the child to the person who says "good for the child" and eyes on your wallet. Otherwise, not only will the wallet be "dead", but the child will also be injured. The Internet age is also an era of information explosion, and access to knowledge has never been easier. Most of the parents of the new era have been well educated. They should have used the weapon of the Internet to run the monsters on the road of child-rearing. So why are some people falling into their own shackles? It may be eager to win, but it will be chaotic.
Since one heart is good for children, the first thing parents should do is to improve their "child care literacy". It is necessary to know that parenting and education have their own rules. Parents only have to comply, instead of spurting the seedlings, otherwise it is possible to ask for fish. At the same time, we must learn to cross-certify knowledge, improve the ability to distinguish information, and learn to identify traps and hidden meanings in information. If the children are not well trained, they will cultivate a "susceptible" physique.
Finally, for children before the age of three, parental love and companionship is the best education, no one.
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